I don't want to change people. Sometimes I just I could change what they think or believe. Do you believe in fate? Or coincidences? Or the will of God? I struggle with all of those concepts, and I usually believe the one that I want to in a particular situation. I don't want to be a controlling person, I really don't. I just wish I could change certain things... It kills me to sit by and watch everything go by wrong. I hate thinking there's absolutely nothing I can do about it! I want to believe that everything is the will of God, that he does have a plan for everyone, and we're just following it. And I know I'm not supposed to understand every part of a plan he presents. Is this really the plan for my life? Wat happens if I don't want to follow it...